If the Internet represents middle school and all the websites represent kids, Google would be the mean girl. Why? Because Google only picks websites that are already popular to be at the top of search results. Google only likes you if everybody else likes you first. But the crazy thing is, you don’t need Google […]
Single or Dating
As a counselor, I can show people where the water is, but I cannot make them drink. I desperately want everyone to have their happily ever after, but sometimes I have to be honest with myself. As long as humans are human, it won’t happen for everyone. Not all of us are willing to put […]
You’ve heard them before. The match-makers. The know-it-alls. Your married friends and your mother too. “You should go out on more dates.” “What’s wrong with him, him or him?” “All you have to do is find a good man, settle down and get married.” “What are you waiting for?” They make it sound so easy. Meanwhile, […]
The four temperaments is simple to understand and it analyzes how personalities affect dating and marriage better than some of the others.
Personalities are God-given assets that make you who you are. We all have different roles to play in the world, as well as in our families, and if He had made us all alike and given us all the same personalities, some jobs would be left undone. Or even worse, they’d have to be done by someone who isn’t qualified.
Set up clear boundaries to protect your relationship from kids, in-laws, neighbors, and anyone else who may try to run interference. Your partner can’t love you any more than you love yourself. You teach people how to treat you by how you treat yourself. Strong relationships call for a strong balance between couple time and […]