From time to time, I write something that rubs people the wrong way. In this case, I got feed-back saying that I sound like an anti-feminist who does not support strong-willed women. If you’re one of those women who may be offended by something you thought I was trying to say, allow me take this […]
Single or Dating
Q&A Help! I’m Repenting More Than Abstaining
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. We talked about getting married after he finishes his Master’s degree. But for now, we are trying to remain abstinent until we get married and are finding it very hard to do. We have to repent more than we would like to and end […]
Q&A Do I have to have a Relationship with His Nosey, Controlling Mother?
Q. I dated my fiancé for 9 months before he proposed. Things were going well with his mother and me until after he proposed. She wants everything to be her way because of family traditions. Not only does she insist that we get married at her church—the one that he grew up in, she wants […]
Marriage
How to Build Trust in a Relationship after you’ve been Betrayed (Again)
Betrayal hurts. Very few of us escape life without experiencing some type of backstabbing, backbiting, or cheating from people we love. It doesn’t matter if it was a friend, family member, or boo. Betrayal makes you wonder how you will ever build trust again. Without trust in your relationship, you’re like a prison guard to […]
Why do Men Cheat?
One of the greatest mysteries that every hurting woman wants to know is “why do men cheat?” I wish the answer was as simple and straight forward as the question, but it isn’t. There are several reasons why a man chooses to stray. But without talking to him and digging into his background, it’s hard […]
Q & A This Lady (Mother in law) Hates Me for no Reason!
Q. My new mother in law hates me. She never thought I was good enough for her son I guess because my family is not middle-class like them. When we visit his family, she loudly asks him if he’s getting enough to eat or if he has clean clothes. She loves to hint that I’m […]
